What to Say Before Your Child’s First Appointment

It’s completely normal to feel unsure about how to talk to your child before their first therapy visit. You want to keep things positive without overwhelming them. Whether your child is a toddler or a teen, a little preparation can help them feel more comfortable and at ease.

Depending on your child’s age, you may want to share that you are going to a place to play. There are toys and swings and games. For younger children, this explanation is usually sufficient. For older children and adolescents, it’s important to be open and up front. Be honest… your child is coming to meet with a speech language pathologist, an occupational therapist, and a behavioral health therapist who all have a lot of experience working with kids who have a hard time getting their words out. It’s sometimes comforting to also share that Joleen (if she’s the evaluating SLP) has a daughter who had selective mutism when she was younger.

No matter how you choose to explain it, your calm and supportive tone goes a long way. The goal is to help your child feel safe, seen, and understood. You’re doing an amazing job—and they’re in good hands.